Thursday, October 26, 2006
something someone said dat makes sense....
"But yeah.. what the heck we all get our shit right. Some of us busrt out, others take it in silence. the outcome is the same: sooner or later we realise that we maybe worth more then we receive from the other. If the dy comes one either breathes freely..as in you move on.
or one gets a big shock and disappointment and finds it hard to move on , love or trust again..."
assy:love is not about receiving, pure love should be free of expectations......... but we r afterall humans n we do need to know that our love is reciprocated in more ways than one..... we need to know that our giving is appreciated by our loved ones......we need to be loved..... although da receiving part is really not essential in a relationship, it will be nice to receive presents n cards n hugs........
u would like to give to make your love ones happy and hence you r happy
but u would like to receive so that u r happy which in turn makes the giver happy
or one gets a big shock and disappointment and finds it hard to move on , love or trust again..."
assy:love is not about receiving, pure love should be free of expectations......... but we r afterall humans n we do need to know that our love is reciprocated in more ways than one..... we need to know that our giving is appreciated by our loved ones......we need to be loved..... although da receiving part is really not essential in a relationship, it will be nice to receive presents n cards n hugs........
u would like to give to make your love ones happy and hence you r happy
but u would like to receive so that u r happy which in turn makes the giver happy
